IT IS SOMETIME BACK I WROTE a post Titled ‘DO CIRCUMSTANCES PLAY A VITAL ROLE IN HUMAN BEINGS LIFE’, and as expected except a few bloggers, rest of the people did not peep into the post. What could have been the reasons, let us take some time to Analize, that might have occured due to the ‘CIRCUMSTANCES’ as said in my above post.

  • First and the foremost reason could be they would have gone out of their normal resting places due to Christmas and New Year-2018.
  • Secondly thay would have made many a ‘RESOLUTIONS’ for the New year and may not be able to cope with the resolutions made and may be frustrated with themselves as they might have failed like the previous years.
  • Next being, many would be preparing for their forthcoming Annual exams being afaraid that they would be facing the wrath of their loved ones if they flunk.
  • Fourth reason could be many may be upset, as their girl friends or boy friends might have ‘DITCHED’ them having found someone better than them and naturally would be looking as if a spider has fallen into their soup.
  • The next reason could be some who are lucky ones,would have gone on a Honey-moon and would be thinking ‘ let the bloggging go to hell’.
  • Next reason could be they must be stuck with NEWTONS FIRST LAW, which gives rise to ‘inertia’ Which in ordinary words is called lazyness.
  • Some may be feeling short of ‘dough’ which normally makes anyone disinterested for the time being- as in my case.
  • There may be many more reasons which this little brain (if you care to call it a brain) cannot recollect. So, as stated, in my Post ‘ Do Circumstances play a vital role in humans life -stands proved. So No QED IS REQUIRED AS SAID IN GEOMETRY. (QED: stands for: quad erat demonstrandum)




Surprizing is it not? Well someone would have experienced in their own personal life too, at some point of time. This may sound some what in the pessimistic way but it is true.

This is not only in love affairs, between opposite sexes but might have happened in the case of like poles too.(one is aware that, like poles repel and unlike poles attract) You might have noted in the case of Magnets too, that this is true.

To quote a live example: In a Training programme organised by an institution, they had conducted a game in which one has to choose one of the partcipants as ones ‘leader’, another one as ones ‘subordinate’, so on and soforth. When my turn came i had indicated one ‘Mr X’ as ‘my Boss’ Under whom i wished to work and another man say ‘Mr Y’ as my Assistant’. In the same way other participants had also indicated their choices thro secret ballot. When the Training Manager, who was conducting the programme brought out and the results on the black-board, i was astonished to find that the Mr X, whom i had indicated as my Boss, had mentioned in his statement as myself ‘as unco-operative and useless’. Whereas the man whom i had indicated ‘as my Assistant’ i.e.,Mr ‘ Y’ had indicated myself as his Boss’ and had appreciated me as an upright and resposible person and had indicated to accept me as his ‘Boss’

From the above, it might be clear, to everyone that Whom we regard as ‘MOST USEFUL’ the same person might look us, as useless, and ‘WHOM WE Think as a ‘Useless fellow’ on the contrary, may have a Very GOOD opinion about us.

The above usually happens between a BOY AND A GIRL which usually results in misunderstandings and paves way for sucides and other such mishaps. HENCE ONE SHOULD NOT JUMP INTO CONCLUSIONS IN MARITAL RELATIONS.



Humans never learn from mistakes they do.


‘TO ERR IS HUMAN,BUT TO FORGIVE IS DIVINE’ From Times immorial the saying is made known but man is yet to learn its meaning in its fullest form.

We are interested in the former part of the saying as in the present context we are only concerned with it.

One might recall the HISTORY OF INDIA, where it is stated that Invaders who attacked India were dime a dozen and more furious among them was Mohammed of Ghazni, who had the guts to invade India for at least a dozen and a half times and plundered the famous Somanatha temple in the North of India. This being apart there were also The Moguls from Afghanistan who established their Kingdom in India due to the lack of Unity and animosity among the then kings of the Indian Empire.

The TAJMAHAL, which is considered as one of the wonders of the world was built by King Shah Jehan who was considered as a palace builder. When there was lack of UNITY  within India itself there is no point in mentioning that  king Shahjahan had kept his father imprisoned in jail, which proves the Adage: ‘people living in glass houses should not throw stones’.

After the Mogul rule, the British entered India with an objective of Trade and seeing that there was in fight between the Two communities coolly and with adeptness  established their kingdom in India. Very few kings were there who protested against the British. The only rulers, in India that too being in the Southern most part of India were  the Brave Hyder Ali and his son Tippu Sultan who fought against the British rule and gave their lives for the cause of Indian Independence.Thus it is befitting that a great warriors Centenary celebrations are conducted with a Pomp and show, instead of ‘ a few people trying their best ‘to throw spanner in the works’.







The above statement could have been made by someone intelligent who would have observed the behaviour of Human-beings.

GOUTHAM BUDDHA has Stated that  “Desire is the cause of all sorrows”. Instead of stating, he could have slightly modified as’ SELFISHNESS IS THE CAUSE OF ALL SORROWS.’ This would be more apt because One always considers himself ‘First’ and this is called as’ SELF’ or ‘SELFISHNESS’

Having come into this world ‘MAN’ to satisfy with this self, tries to Struggle for his existence and  goes after wealth, fame  etc., which in turns to ‘EGO’.

Because of this Ego, one tries to look superior in the eyes of fellow beings and thus aspires to acquire money to meet his various needs. Here it is apt to remember the words of   LIONEL ROBBINS who stated his THEORY OF ECONOMICS  ‘Wants’ are numerous but the’ Means’ are Scarce. Here ‘Wants’ refer to various desires of man’ and ‘MEANS’ refer to ‘Money or wealth ‘

Thus Man having numerous wants, viz, Tasty Food, Nice and costly clothes to wear, good house to live in and luxury cars to move about, so on and so forth and finding very little money at his disposal,  tries his best to fulfill his desires which in turn give rise to malice, jealousy, hatred, envy and other such evils  upon seeing other people getting their desired things and himself not able to, which  proves to be detrimental to ones own progress and in turn corrupts his mind. Because of these negative qualities man starts hating each other in the society  and there by it comes in the way of  UNITY and thereby gives rise to DIVERSITY.

Further the society in which we live, gives value to only appearance and not judge a person in ‘WHAT HE IS THAN ‘WHAT ONE POSSESS’.  If one cares to look into social gatherings such as Birthday Parties, Wedding or such similar parties, it comes to observe that each one wants to appear better than others so as get admiration from the others persons present around him. On not getting the expected praise, one feels jealous which leads to unhappiness  and thus loss of mental imbalance etc.

Once a saint asks his disciples as to who can attain salvation (avoiding re-birth) and none could give a satisfactory answer. Then one disciple, who is considered as an outcast, answers cleverly stating that “ IF ‘I’ COULD GO,I SHALL GO”(meaning he can attain salvation). Every one  who had gathered around  are  astounded with the answer given by the out-caste and mocks about his ignorance and adosity. Then the disciple explains that ‘I’ Stood for ‘SELFISHNESS’  and mentions  that if the ‘selfishness’ is removed from ones mind then one  can attain SALVATION. 

Hence, it is clear that Man cannot be happy unless he is contented with what he has. SANTH Thulsidas narrates in his Doha (a stanza of two lines) that a man may be in possession of hundreds of elephants, horses,and mines filled with valuable gems, but he will not be happy unless he is bestowed with ‘contentedness’  Thus we can see that’ MAN DOES NOT KNOW HOW TO LIVE ON LAND because of selfish attitude which is present in  every human being and it takes years and years of Devotion towards the Almighty to dispel  the selfishness.




A Minimum of Eight hours of work is supposed to be put in by a Supervisor, Officer, or Manager  of an organization, in India. Of course all these are blue prints of the western civilization which has been adopted from the western side of the world

In one such Industry, the same rule was in vogue and people were following it scruplously, and on occasions, supervisors and the above grades used to put in extra hours other than the stipulated Eight hours taking more  interest in the assigned tasks or due to exegencies of work.

Due to some personal problems or for reasons best known to themselves, these category  i.e., Supervisors  and just above grade people were coming late to work , i.e., if they had to come at 8 am sharp, they used to come by Halfpasteight or late by an hour. These instances of late reporting to work came to the notice of the Management and they issued strict orders  saying that ‘Staff attending  duty should be punctual or else they can abstain themselves from attending work.’

This was not taken with a smile by the staff who were putting in’ late attendance ‘ and they argued that they were putting in extra hours of work due to exigencies  of work and  thus the view of the Management with regard to ‘late reporting’  was an act of injustice and not viewed in the right perspective.

Upon seeing the attitude of the supervisory staff with regard to the ‘late reporting’  on such pretext, the Management issued a circular which read  ” Being the supervisory staff, the management, expects that the supervisory and other higher managerial level, being responsible for the rise and development of the organization should be On duty 24/7 , (i.e., right round the  clock) and only on the basis of gratis  the management has permitted supervisory and other staff to go to their homes soon after their working hours ,as such it is not right on the part of those reporting ‘LATE TO WORK ‘ On some pretext is not valid.”

This Episode is a Fact and not a fiction. This has been brought out to serve as an Eye-opener to the younger generation.

Thus one should remember the words of Late John F. Kennedy ,Who served as the 35th PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES. which  states : “D’ont ask what the Country has done for you, ask what you have done for your Country”



CONCERN TOWARDS OTHERS- what we really lack!

Iam not trying to exagerrate on this point. As everyone knows: There is a big question as to what is civilization and culture. Every one is aware as to what is civilization, but none is aware of what ‘CULTURE’ is.

To drive home my point i would like to narrate what i have observed in India.When someone ‘Expires’ the whole town will be there to attend the funeral together with their crocodile tears.where as WHEN ONE IS ALIVE HARDLY NO ONE POKES HIS HEAD AROUND. Why this kind of acting bothers me. We need not worry that we are not acting in any film as we are not actors, but in real life we even excel the real actors in a film. In a film, the actors are paid, whereas, we are not paid for our acting.

Now, One, must have nearly come to the point, which i am trying to stress on. When the last Governer General of India namely Mr RAJAGOPALACHARI (who has penned many a books) was inquired as to what is ‘CULTURE’ He replied “Having concern towards others is culture”.

One more instance i would like to mention in this context. It is my experience that more often than not, people who occupy window seats (especially in a two seater seat) in the government or private buses, occupy 3/4th of the seats in Karnataka,thinking that the whole seat is meant for them alone.This makes the other person parking his bottom,usually to fall down from the bus,when the bus negotiates a bend.This again points to the ‘NO CONCERN’ attitude of the persons.

This ‘LACK OF CONCERN’ one can observe in our ‘bloggers section too’. To test what bloggers would do, if i keep mum for some time i decided not to Post any further ‘posts’ for some time.When i did this for about a fortnight or so, none appeared to go thro any of my posts which i had penned earlier, nor bothered as to why a gap was there altogether. Ofcourse, they would be busy with something or the other. Yesterday, when i set the ball in motion again, one or two bloggers also replied to my ‘Comments’ and ‘likes’ Thus, this action of mine proved that ‘if we care, some also do’ and it points to ”CONCERN’ again.

I had gone thro some of the ‘posts’ penned by others some time back and had sent my ‘comments’ for which neither there was reply nor action from their end.This ‘behaviour’ from the bloggers show that they have no concern towards others which goes to prove my point.

I feel, it would do a lot of encouragement if the bloggers accept the comments and give a line in reply.Hope the Blogger fraternity will consider the matter in the right perspective and encourage the novice ones instead of praising the already popular bloggers who have already on the Top list.


Don’t judge a book by its Cover,but unfortunately that’s what is being done!

I have often quoted in my posts that people are SELFISH AND SELF ORIENTED. Not only this, but they are unresonable,and they lack of seeing things in the right perspective.

I have often observed that people rush to see the posts written by already popular bloggers and not even care to glance at the other blogs, written by other bloggers, who have not made a name. In Kannada (one of the languages of Karnataka- SOUTHERN INDIA ) there is a quote which says people only bet on the tails of bullocks which are sure to win and not on the losing ones). And seeing the response given to my post, i feel,what has been stated is quite true. They only go for the posts which has a good lot of attractive photos, just like men looking at beautiful women and craving, at a party. So what is stated in the Title, “Dont judge a book by its cover” though stated is not at all in vogue,which goes to prove that ‘IT IS EASY TO PREACH THAN TO PRACTICE’.

Iam not telling that people who have posts with title ‘My bed room for christmas’ My preparations for New year, ’10 ways for better relationships are all absurd. People have differnt tastes and naturally their choices and their posts appear as per their experiences. They are also correct, as per the narration stated below:

Their were 11 blindmen of Hindustan, who wanted to wanted to see an elephant, but as they were blind, they could not see the elephant. So each one touched different parts of the elephant and when asked how is an elephant they said’Elephant is like a wall- this was from the blindman who happened to touch the body of the elephant. The next one said ‘elephant is like a pipe- this was from a man who had touched the trunk of elephant. So every one stated as per what they experienced. Though, every one was partly correct, no one was fully correct.



Man has conquered everything but not -ONE THING?

WOMEN have been always the weakness of man.If one cares to turn the pages of History one can easily perceive that always women have been the weakness of men. Let, one be an emperor or a common man,always he is a slave of womens’ beauty.

Julius ceazer was an emperor of Rome, but when CLEOPATRA, asked him to bow down to her, he unhesitatingly responded. As Mark Antony points out in his speech, (which is considered as one of the masterpieces of English literature) Ceazer was offered thrice the gold crown, but thrice he refused.But being infatuated with Cleopatra’s beauty, he could not resist himself.

Take a look at our great Hindu Epic RAMAYANA.The demon king ‘RAVANA’ was a mighty warrior, who had even slaved the ‘NAVAGRAHAS’ (the nine planets, Sun, Moon, Jupiter,uranus,Neptune, Saturn etc) but was moved by SEETHA-SRI RAMA’S WIFE, and paved way for his own distruction.

If one has heard the story of ‘SAMSON AND DELILAH’ one can see that Samson being so mighty, was enthralled by the beauty of DELILAH, and hereto we see that,Samson puts and end to his life along with Delilah, because of his love towards her.

In India, there was a lot of controvercy with the film PADMAVATHI’ which every one is aware of. ‘PADMAVATHI’ was known for her beauty, which made Alluddin Khilgi, attack the kingdom of The king of Rajputs and ended in killing Padmavathi’s husband in the battle. Padmavathi, being very loyal to her husband, immolated herself, to escape from the lustful eyes of Allauddin Khilgi. One can see, that women has been the weakness of men, for which many a battle has been fought in one form or the other.

In another Epic of Hindus, we see that, SAGE VISHWAMITHRA, had involved himself in a penance for a length of time, to get the blessings of Lord Bramha- the creator of Universe, but had to put an end to his penance, because he was attracted by the beauty of celestial dancer Menaka. Thus he had to wash off his hands from his lengthy penance because of his weakness towards the woman.

God has created man and woman And women are considered as fair sex, which men cannot resist because of womens’ beauty and is always a slave.



“Some one has quoted” Man is a product of his thoughts,what he thinks he becomes”.

Let us examine whether the above statement, to what extent, is True or not, by going through some fictionary examples and some through, what has been depicted in films and plays.

Coming to the first aspect let us see How love is important between two human beings of different sex. If there was no sex or lust involved, the world would not exist. I hope every one accepts this and wo’nt ask for a blue print to PROVE THIS.

Let us consider a Teenage boy existed, and due to his economic background not being stable, is involved in giving tutions to some youngsters. Among them there is one girl who is very pretty and the youngster also has guessed that the girl is also in love with him. Every one knows that love is blind. The boy is still a student and as said above is not financially sound. More over he has several brothers and sisters who being elder to him, are yet to enter the wedded life. As if adding fuel to fire, the girl is from a different caste and it is needless to point out that the boy too was. Now how can the boy go ahead and marry the girl whom he likes so much. He is left with no other option except to forego. With a heavy heart he had to bow to the CIRCUMSTANCES Surrounding him.

Let us imagine a case in which a young girl is married to a much elder man who is nearly 18 years older than her. The lass, hailing from a family, where she had several younger sisters yet to be married, had no other option except to agree to the marriage with the man who was much older than her age. She had to undergo the decision due to another fact and that was due to her parents being financially unsound.Here again we can Visualize ‘Circumstances’ playing its mighty hand.

Now let us go to the known subject other than the unknown or fabricated one. In Shakespeare’s great Tragedy play -Hamlet. Hamlet, is deeply in love with Ophelia, who is the daughter of Polonius.Hamlet’s father is cunningly murdered by his brother and Hamlet, wants to avenge his fathers death. Now due to some confussion arising out, POLONIUS gets killed by Hamlet himself, on account of which OPHELIA, becomes insane and gets drowned in a stream accidently. Now, is Hamlet not under circumstances?

In India Producer- Actor,Rajkapoor, produced a film ‘MERA NAM JOKER’ in which a boy, being a student falls in love with his teacher, who is elder to him. The teacher also likes him so much but due to difference in caste and age is unable to think of wed-lock. Finally the boy with a heavy heart witnessess the marriage of his teacher with some other happy-go-lucky- fellow. Here also it is evident that Circumstances comes in the way of ones progress.

Many of us might have come under similar circumstances in their life too. SO WE CAN DEFINITELY VOUCH THAT MAN IS A SLAVE OF CIRCUMSTANCES.